MEET YOUR GUIDE TO NAVIGATING DIVORCE WITH COMPASSION AND CLARITY
Wendy Rovers, Certified Divorce and Relationship Coach®
Welcome to The Creative Divorce, a space where transformation through transition is fully supported and embraced.
I founded this community and dedicate myself to this work because I understand that divorce can feel isolating and overwhelming—but you don't have to navigate it alone. This is a pivotal time to focus on learning, growth, and transformation. It’s essential to surround yourself with the right support network, including compassionate professionals and skilled experts who will guide you thoughtfully through each step of your journey. Together, we can help you move forward with strength, clarity, and a renewed sense of purpose.
How Divorce Coaching Can Help You
STREAMLINE DIVORCE PROCESS
You will build self-awareness, learn new skills, be equipped with knowledge, resources, and options, find the right people to support you, show up prepared which will save time & money, take actions and be held accountable, and clarify what is truly best for you and your family.
FOSTERING RESILIENCE AND SELF-RELIANCE
Cultivate the strength to set and achieve meaningful goals, fostering a sense of empowerment and peace as you navigate life after divorce. Embrace challenges as opportunities for personal growth and learning.
TAKE CONFIDENT ACTION IN UNCERTAIN TIMES
Learn to take decisive action and foster gratitude, even amidst uncertainty and chaos. These are essential skills you can cultivate to navigate challenges with clarity, resilience, and confidence.
BE PREPARED AND ORGANIZED
Gain clarity on your goals, your values, what you want, why you want it, where you are headed and the actions you will take to get there. Ask yourself Where do I want to be one year from now, ten years from now, twenty years from now? How do I want my life to look?
BUILD CLEAR COMMUNICATION & NEGOTIATION SKILLS
Gain clarity on your goals, ask thoughtful questions, and listen to understand others' perspectives. Communicate with flexibility, empathy, and clarity. Be aware of what might derail you, and approach every interaction with preparation and focus.
SUPPORT
Commit to doing this work with me and you will feel connected and supported. You will be seen and heard, challenged and loved, frustrated and exhilarated, peaceful and excited about the future you envision.
You will learn new tools and skills to help create your amazing life.
...rooted in the principles of awareness, self discipline, and action.
...step into an exciting life of love, generosity, and joy.
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My Approach
I coach with both heart and head, believing that each client’s journey is unique and requires a tailored approach.
My coaching philosophy is rooted in the principles of awareness, vulnerability, curiosity, and action. We will explore new perspectives, set clear intentions, and push the boundaries of what you think is possible. Together, we will identify and dismantle the stories that hold you back, allowing you to step into a life of honesty, generosity, and love.
Brief part of my Story...
My passion is to help you listen to and trust your inner wisdom, challenge the narratives you hold, reenvision your future, and embrace the present with courage and honesty.
My journey through personal and professional transformation began more than 20 years ago when I navigated the turbulent waters of separation and divorce. At that time, I felt profoundly alone. I had well-meaning family and friends and a lawyer that I liked, but I lacked the critical support of a coach—someone who could truly guide me through the emotional and practical challenges that I faced. I found myself in the aisles of bookstores for hours, devouring books on how to "divorce well." I buried myself in peer-reviewed articles, qualitative and quantitative studies, desperate for answers and clarity.
I didn’t know what I was doing. I was scared and overwhelmed, afraid I would ruin my children’s lives. I struggled with feelings of selfishness, guilt, failure, and deep sadness. But through it all, I learned. I educated myself, grew stronger, and slowly began to rebuild. It wasn’t easy, and it certainly wasn’t quick, but it deeply shaped who I am today, and the work that I do.
My personal lived experience, along with my extensive work with clients, inspired the development of both the 'youfirstwefirst' framework and the 'Create Your Life' model, which guide the overarching approach and mission of our company.
Placing clarity, reality, and personal growth at the forefront of any transition and guiding clients through understanding their story, becoming more self-aware, and intentionally crafting a new vision for their lives—step by step. This approach blends structured guidance, actionable tools, and fierce support, reflecting a deep commitment to transforming obstacles into opportunities for growth and resilience, even when faced with life’s most challenging moments.
I understand the fear, uncertainty, and commitment to making the best choices for your family. Reflecting on my own journey, I know that having a coach like the one I am now would have helped me navigate the process with greater efficiency, knowledge, and self-compassion. This is why I am dedicated to this work—because I’ve stood where you stand. I am here to support you in navigating this journey with clarity, strength, and renewed purpose, so you can emerge not merely intact, but transformed.
Overcome these common Divorce Challenges with Targeted Solutions
Divorce is never just a legal process; it involves navigating a complex maze of emotions, responsibilities, and personal growth. At The Creative Divorce, we understand the unique challenges you face. Here's how we address some of the most common problems with thoughtful, effective solutions.
EMOTIONAL OVERWHELM AND CHAOS
Feeling overwhelmed by the multitude of decisions and the intense emotions that accompany divorce?
Our Divorce Coaching programs offer a structured approach to navigating both the emotional and practical aspects of divorce. Through personalized one-on-one sessions and tailored strategies, we guide you in managing stress, understanding and processing your emotions, and approaching every decision—whether it relates to family, children, finances, or other practical matters—with clarity and confidence. This comprehensive support allows you to separate the emotional complexities from the business side of divorce, empowering you to move forward with greater resilience and purpose.
I DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START?
Struggling with uncertainty about what the future holds and how to move forward?
Coaching provides structured guidance, support, and accountability, helping you gain clarity on what you truly want, where you're headed, and how to get there. By aligning your goals with your core values, coaching empowers you to set meaningful objectives, create an effective roadmap, and transform obstacles into opportunities through a shift in perspective. With steady progress and a focus on using discomfort as a catalyst for growth, coaching ensures you remain committed to actionable steps and self-discovery, enabling you to navigate challenges and build the future you envision for yourself and your family.
FEAR OF MAKING WRONG DECISIONS
The fear of making the wrong decision can be paralyzing, leading many of us to stay stuck in situations that no longer serve us. This is often driven by the desire to avoid failure, rejection, or disappointment. We want to know with absolute certainty that our decisions will lead to the “right” outcome—a security that doesn’t exist. This fear keeps us in a cycle of hesitation, second-guessing, and inaction.
In moments of doubt, it can be helpful to embrace the concept that action, not perfection, is what propels us forward. Movement is essential for growth, and fear is part of that process. The more we avoid making decisions out of fear, the more our world contracts, and the more our anxiety grows.
Courage isn’t about eliminating fear; it’s about acting in spite of it. By taking even small steps, we begin to shift from being stuck to creating momentum. The discomfort and uncertainty we face are unavoidable, but they can serve as catalysts for growth and self-discovery. When we shift our perspective and allow ourselves to act without a guaranteed outcome, we open up possibilities for new experiences and learning.
Instead of striving for perfection or certainty, focus on taking one meaningful action. Reflect on what you can learn from the outcome, regardless of whether it meets your expectations. This process builds resilience, clarity, and a deeper understanding of who you are and what you want. The fear of making the wrong decision loses its power when you are committed to learning and growing through each experience, one step at a time.
Embark on your journey to a smoother divorce with our free mini course, '7 Divorce Challenges & 7 Solutions'. This course offers insightful, quick-win strategies to tackle common divorce challenges. Perfect for those looking to gain an initial understanding of the divorce process and how to navigate it with some knowledge and more confidence.
7 Divorce Challenges & Solutions
Prepare for your divorce with confidence using our comprehensive Divorce Planning Guide. For just $47, this course provides step-by-step guidance through every crucial aspect of the divorce process. From navigating legal and financial matters to managing emotional challenges, you'll gain essential tools, strategies, and resources to organize and approach your divorce with clarity and resources that you need.
Divorce Planning Guide
Elevate your life with personalized one-on-one coaching designed specifically for your unique needs and goals. This isn’t just about support—it’s about clarity, accountability, and taking massive action to break through limitations and achieve what you truly want. Coaching gives you the structure, tools, and momentum to turn obstacles into opportunities, to move from feeling overwhelmed to taking decisive, purpose-driven action. With powerful strategies, unwavering support, and a focus on real results, you can step into a life of greater joy, success, and fulfillment.
1:1 Coaching & Support
YOU ARE MEANT FOR MORE.
Transform through Transition
NAVIGATE DIVORCE WITH CONFIDENCE AND LOVE
Curious about the unique challenges you’ll encounter during separation and divorce? Join our FREE course: "7 Divorce Challenges & 7 Solutions." Gain access to proven strategies that have empowered countless individuals to regain control of their lives. This course offers valuable expert insights and practical steps tailored to support you through this pivotal time, providing clarity on the obstacles divorce brings and ways to navigate them effectively.
Transform Your Divorce
INTO A JOURNEY OF SELF-DISCOVERY AND SELF-AWARENESS